"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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noticing her hair?

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Okay, one last thing from me, and then I'll leave you guys alone for a while. I'm a girl, btw.
So there is this guy, I like him, I think he might like me. Trying to figure out whether he does or not.
I got my hair cut the other day, I cut about 7 inches off, so it was a big change. We saw each other today for about 10 minutes, then I left. (we were at work).
About 5 minutes after I left, he called me, but i was driving and couldnt pick up. Then when I got home I noticed a txt message, and he was just like "you got your hair cut didnt you." So I'm assuming when he called before he was just calling becuase he was going to comment on my hair, lol. When I texted back I said how I wasn't sure if I liked it or not, and he was like, "no, it looks good." Sooo...again, is he being friendly, or what? Say you only liked a girl as a friend, but you weren't really "friends", like you never hung out before, would you call her just to let her know you noticed her new hair cut?
I have a hard time determining whats just friendly, and whats signs of interest...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's not a strong sign, you should be looking for Indicators of Interest when you talk to him. (Action)

That would be the "IOI's for Dummy Girls", since the IOI's we talk about are the "IOIs for Dummy Guys" guide:rolleyes:
 
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