"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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noticing her hair?

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Okay, one last thing from me, and then I'll leave you guys alone for a while. I'm a girl, btw.
So there is this guy, I like him, I think he might like me. Trying to figure out whether he does or not.
I got my hair cut the other day, I cut about 7 inches off, so it was a big change. We saw each other today for about 10 minutes, then I left. (we were at work).
About 5 minutes after I left, he called me, but i was driving and couldnt pick up. Then when I got home I noticed a txt message, and he was just like "you got your hair cut didnt you." So I'm assuming when he called before he was just calling becuase he was going to comment on my hair, lol. When I texted back I said how I wasn't sure if I liked it or not, and he was like, "no, it looks good." Sooo...again, is he being friendly, or what? Say you only liked a girl as a friend, but you weren't really "friends", like you never hung out before, would you call her just to let her know you noticed her new hair cut?
I have a hard time determining whats just friendly, and whats signs of interest...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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It's not a strong sign, you should be looking for Indicators of Interest when you talk to him. (Action)

That would be the "IOI's for Dummy Girls", since the IOI's we talk about are the "IOIs for Dummy Guys" guide:rolleyes:
 
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