"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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noticing her hair?

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Okay, one last thing from me, and then I'll leave you guys alone for a while. I'm a girl, btw.
So there is this guy, I like him, I think he might like me. Trying to figure out whether he does or not.
I got my hair cut the other day, I cut about 7 inches off, so it was a big change. We saw each other today for about 10 minutes, then I left. (we were at work).
About 5 minutes after I left, he called me, but i was driving and couldnt pick up. Then when I got home I noticed a txt message, and he was just like "you got your hair cut didnt you." So I'm assuming when he called before he was just calling becuase he was going to comment on my hair, lol. When I texted back I said how I wasn't sure if I liked it or not, and he was like, "no, it looks good." Sooo...again, is he being friendly, or what? Say you only liked a girl as a friend, but you weren't really "friends", like you never hung out before, would you call her just to let her know you noticed her new hair cut?
I have a hard time determining whats just friendly, and whats signs of interest...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not a strong sign, you should be looking for Indicators of Interest when you talk to him. (Action)

That would be the "IOI's for Dummy Girls", since the IOI's we talk about are the "IOIs for Dummy Guys" guide:rolleyes:
 
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