“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Noticed a problem with my game

SpeedRunner

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6 months of DJing/PUAing has caused me to notice a pattern. I have no problem at all bagging average chicks. So lets talk about where my problem lies... whenever I meet a chick... that is really good looking... really rich.... with a really much busier schedule then mine... and alot more going on...

guess what, I cant get them. I was talking to a really good chick who lived close and would have been absolutely perfect. I pretty much did everything I could... I may have made a mistake by calling everyday and IMing her every time she got online. I was really confident that I would get her, because of the amount of success I've had in 2005. Last nite, in just four lines of AIM... she told me that I wasnt her type and that I looked too young (wtf, she's 18 and im 19?). So I said whatever, your loss. Which is half true. It was my loss too.

What I want to know.... what should I do next time I meet a chick like this? I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mojo604

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If your that young looking... look at it this way...you'll be able to bag 18 yea olds till your 30. lol
 

SpeedRunner

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Originally posted by Mojo604
If your that young looking... look at it this way...you'll be able to bag 18 yea olds till your 30. lol
I -have- thought about that and have already decided that's exactly what im gonna do. :)
 

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he has a good point lol but don't let that go to your head. you can date 18 year olds until your 30 as that's your choice, but people have a hard time adjusting to that.

as for this comment "I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am." I guess you can't change who you are, if you say so.
 

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putting on a facade to nail average girls is easier than being the real deal and scoring real women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by SpeedRunner
6 months of DJing/PUAing has caused me to notice a pattern. I have no problem at all bagging average chicks. So lets talk about where my problem lies... whenever I meet a chick... that is really good looking... really rich.... with a really much busier schedule then mine... and alot more going on...

guess what, I cant get them. I was talking to a really good chick who lived close and would have been absolutely perfect. I pretty much did everything I could... I may have made a mistake by calling everyday and IMing her every time she got online. I was really confident that I would get her, because of the amount of success I've had in 2005. Last nite, in just four lines of AIM... she told me that I wasnt her type and that I looked too young (wtf, she's 18 and im 19?). So I said whatever, your loss. Which is half true. It was my loss too.

What I want to know.... what should I do next time I meet a chick like this? I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am.

That my friend, is why you were unsuccessful with this girl. I don't think you have serious problems with your game, it just seems like you have a tendancy to simp when it comes to bad chicks. Treat them like any other females and make sure that they know that they can be replaced. Women don't think rationally a lot of times and treating them like they are not all that will really work wonders.
 
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