"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Noticed a problem with my game

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6 months of DJing/PUAing has caused me to notice a pattern. I have no problem at all bagging average chicks. So lets talk about where my problem lies... whenever I meet a chick... that is really good looking... really rich.... with a really much busier schedule then mine... and alot more going on...

guess what, I cant get them. I was talking to a really good chick who lived close and would have been absolutely perfect. I pretty much did everything I could... I may have made a mistake by calling everyday and IMing her every time she got online. I was really confident that I would get her, because of the amount of success I've had in 2005. Last nite, in just four lines of AIM... she told me that I wasnt her type and that I looked too young (wtf, she's 18 and im 19?). So I said whatever, your loss. Which is half true. It was my loss too.

What I want to know.... what should I do next time I meet a chick like this? I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If your that young looking... look at it this way...you'll be able to bag 18 yea olds till your 30. lol
 
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Originally posted by Mojo604
If your that young looking... look at it this way...you'll be able to bag 18 yea olds till your 30. lol
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I -have- thought about that and have already decided that's exactly what im gonna do. :)
 
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he has a good point lol but don't let that go to your head. you can date 18 year olds until your 30 as that's your choice, but people have a hard time adjusting to that.

as for this comment "I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am." I guess you can't change who you are, if you say so.
 
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putting on a facade to nail average girls is easier than being the real deal and scoring real women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by SpeedRunner
6 months of DJing/PUAing has caused me to notice a pattern. I have no problem at all bagging average chicks. So lets talk about where my problem lies... whenever I meet a chick... that is really good looking... really rich.... with a really much busier schedule then mine... and alot more going on...

guess what, I cant get them. I was talking to a really good chick who lived close and would have been absolutely perfect. I pretty much did everything I could... I may have made a mistake by calling everyday and IMing her every time she got online. I was really confident that I would get her, because of the amount of success I've had in 2005. Last nite, in just four lines of AIM... she told me that I wasnt her type and that I looked too young (wtf, she's 18 and im 19?). So I said whatever, your loss. Which is half true. It was my loss too.

What I want to know.... what should I do next time I meet a chick like this? I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am.
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That my friend, is why you were unsuccessful with this girl. I don't think you have serious problems with your game, it just seems like you have a tendancy to simp when it comes to bad chicks. Treat them like any other females and make sure that they know that they can be replaced. Women don't think rationally a lot of times and treating them like they are not all that will really work wonders.
 
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