"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Noticed a problem with my game

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6 months of DJing/PUAing has caused me to notice a pattern. I have no problem at all bagging average chicks. So lets talk about where my problem lies... whenever I meet a chick... that is really good looking... really rich.... with a really much busier schedule then mine... and alot more going on...

guess what, I cant get them. I was talking to a really good chick who lived close and would have been absolutely perfect. I pretty much did everything I could... I may have made a mistake by calling everyday and IMing her every time she got online. I was really confident that I would get her, because of the amount of success I've had in 2005. Last nite, in just four lines of AIM... she told me that I wasnt her type and that I looked too young (wtf, she's 18 and im 19?). So I said whatever, your loss. Which is half true. It was my loss too.

What I want to know.... what should I do next time I meet a chick like this? I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If your that young looking... look at it this way...you'll be able to bag 18 yea olds till your 30. lol
 
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Originally posted by Mojo604
If your that young looking... look at it this way...you'll be able to bag 18 yea olds till your 30. lol
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I -have- thought about that and have already decided that's exactly what im gonna do. :)
 
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he has a good point lol but don't let that go to your head. you can date 18 year olds until your 30 as that's your choice, but people have a hard time adjusting to that.

as for this comment "I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am." I guess you can't change who you are, if you say so.
 
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putting on a facade to nail average girls is easier than being the real deal and scoring real women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WeakMenNeverRise

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Originally posted by SpeedRunner
6 months of DJing/PUAing has caused me to notice a pattern. I have no problem at all bagging average chicks. So lets talk about where my problem lies... whenever I meet a chick... that is really good looking... really rich.... with a really much busier schedule then mine... and alot more going on...

guess what, I cant get them. I was talking to a really good chick who lived close and would have been absolutely perfect. I pretty much did everything I could... I may have made a mistake by calling everyday and IMing her every time she got online. I was really confident that I would get her, because of the amount of success I've had in 2005. Last nite, in just four lines of AIM... she told me that I wasnt her type and that I looked too young (wtf, she's 18 and im 19?). So I said whatever, your loss. Which is half true. It was my loss too.

What I want to know.... what should I do next time I meet a chick like this? I can't fake my game, I cant change who I am.
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That my friend, is why you were unsuccessful with this girl. I don't think you have serious problems with your game, it just seems like you have a tendancy to simp when it comes to bad chicks. Treat them like any other females and make sure that they know that they can be replaced. Women don't think rationally a lot of times and treating them like they are not all that will really work wonders.
 
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