"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nothings fun anymore

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Im the kinda person that likes to be better at things than everyone else like 90% better then everyone, and could care less about the other 10% since it takes to much effort to get ther i stop trying.

So i get props all the time saying hey man your a baller you can get any girl you want like this one guy thinks this girl is a 10 i think shes an 8 hes like so are you gonna hook up with her, since she's always around me.

Im like nahh i dont want to and he says im stupid this guy has so many pimples on his face i think he has oneits for her and is jelous cuz she likes me and doesnt even know he exist.

Anyway i think im gettin lazy i was with 2 chicks in december sum how they pissed me off and we stoped talking. So i figure id hook up with this other chick got her number like 3 weeks ago and havent called her dont know why.

I feel like im better than everyone but at the same time i always feel like im alone im not mean to people or anything im kinda just bored with life nothing is a challenge anymore.

Thnx to anyone who took the time to read this i dont know if it makes any sense all this has been in my head for awhile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hah i felt that one coming, Nah i dont think im gay i dont get any sexual urges when i see guys or anything.

But thers nothin like playing basketball with a bunch a sweaty guys (joking)
 
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I think you need to take a step back...

You say nothings fun anymore....

Look at what you said...

Im the kinda person that likes to be better at things than everyone else like 90% better then everyone
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You're making your life a job. You think it's your job to be better than everyone else. Stop trying to be better than everyone. No wonder you don't have fun anymore you've sucked all the fun out of your life. Instead of saying..."hey I think I want to go play bball today because I LOVE it and its FUN." Your saying..."Hmm I gotta work on my jump shot or my dribbling so I can break this guys ankles."

Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with wanting to improve. It's good that you want to but you got to have a mix of fun and work.

Try this...if you have any siblings or young cousins or something (I'm talking 6-9 years old) go find a small goal or something somewhere and play ball with them and have FUN. Get your mind off of having to be the best.

Just my two cents...


Tootles...
 
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