"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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level006

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I feel as if every girl I want I can't get.

After this girl actually figured out I liked her, she now just doesn't care and I'm left able to do nothing about it. What's worse, she talks to my other guy friends like "Hey we should hang out it would be fun" whereas with me, now that she actually told me that she knows how I feel about her, she wants nothing to do with me.

And this happens a lot; not this particular situation, but every girl I ever wanted never wanted me. I'm always just "there" and I hate it.

I've gotta get my mind off this girl, she obviously doesn't care about me, but it's so hard. I dream about it too, it's awful. Any help would be extremely awesome because I don't want to walk around like a mope and become EMO :( Hahaha....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Disconnect

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I've gotta get my mind off this girl, she obviously doesn't care about me, but it's so hard.
You said it right there. That's the first step. Just ask yourself - why do you like her? Why? What's in her that is so much better than any other girl? Ask yourself that, and you'll find out that most girls don't really distinguish themselves from the mass in any way (think of all the spears look-alikes. Lately, the modelling agencies had such an infulx of them that most can't get a shoot if their life depended on it).

Do actually post why you like this girl so much.

Also, tell us about yourself, and please be honest. What kind of a guy are you? What's your build? What are your friends like? What kind of chicks are you going for?
 

dannowillbookem

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ahhh dude u told her u like her? u told anyone u like her?

thats a bad decision. whenever ur confronted about whether or not u like a young lady, say "well, she has somethings going for her, but so does everyone" and if ur feeling like getting some flirt in there mention she has hairy arms or man hands or something to get her to hit you :D

but never, ever let her know u've been conquered easy. this puts u under her and makes u much less desirable. u have to drop little hints and send mixed messages...ask her to the picture show but make joking comments about her breath. just dont lay it on too heavy.
 

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Originally posted by Disconnect
Also, tell us about yourself, and please be honest. What kind of a guy are you? What's your build? What are your friends like? What kind of chicks are you going for?
I'm a normal looking 15-year-old I guess. I'm funny and smart, and I'm normal weight (not skinny but not fat). I do want to strengthen my body this summer though. My friends are all funny guys who are very open, I can talk to them about anything and I really trust them. I have about 7 really good friends, all of them guys.
 

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You're not a challenge anymore. That's why she doesn't want you. Make yourself less available, take out some other girls, she'll come around :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Phat

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omg dude let me tell u how u should never tell ur friends who u like. it always ruins things. because ur buddys end up telling that girl either way. ull get over her some other time.
 
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