"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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level006

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I feel as if every girl I want I can't get.

After this girl actually figured out I liked her, she now just doesn't care and I'm left able to do nothing about it. What's worse, she talks to my other guy friends like "Hey we should hang out it would be fun" whereas with me, now that she actually told me that she knows how I feel about her, she wants nothing to do with me.

And this happens a lot; not this particular situation, but every girl I ever wanted never wanted me. I'm always just "there" and I hate it.

I've gotta get my mind off this girl, she obviously doesn't care about me, but it's so hard. I dream about it too, it's awful. Any help would be extremely awesome because I don't want to walk around like a mope and become EMO :( Hahaha....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Disconnect

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I've gotta get my mind off this girl, she obviously doesn't care about me, but it's so hard.
You said it right there. That's the first step. Just ask yourself - why do you like her? Why? What's in her that is so much better than any other girl? Ask yourself that, and you'll find out that most girls don't really distinguish themselves from the mass in any way (think of all the spears look-alikes. Lately, the modelling agencies had such an infulx of them that most can't get a shoot if their life depended on it).

Do actually post why you like this girl so much.

Also, tell us about yourself, and please be honest. What kind of a guy are you? What's your build? What are your friends like? What kind of chicks are you going for?
 

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ahhh dude u told her u like her? u told anyone u like her?

thats a bad decision. whenever ur confronted about whether or not u like a young lady, say "well, she has somethings going for her, but so does everyone" and if ur feeling like getting some flirt in there mention she has hairy arms or man hands or something to get her to hit you :D

but never, ever let her know u've been conquered easy. this puts u under her and makes u much less desirable. u have to drop little hints and send mixed messages...ask her to the picture show but make joking comments about her breath. just dont lay it on too heavy.
 

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Originally posted by Disconnect
Also, tell us about yourself, and please be honest. What kind of a guy are you? What's your build? What are your friends like? What kind of chicks are you going for?
I'm a normal looking 15-year-old I guess. I'm funny and smart, and I'm normal weight (not skinny but not fat). I do want to strengthen my body this summer though. My friends are all funny guys who are very open, I can talk to them about anything and I really trust them. I have about 7 really good friends, all of them guys.
 

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You're not a challenge anymore. That's why she doesn't want you. Make yourself less available, take out some other girls, she'll come around :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Phat

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omg dude let me tell u how u should never tell ur friends who u like. it always ruins things. because ur buddys end up telling that girl either way. ull get over her some other time.
 
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