"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So my friend is dating a crazy (ie. phone calls all the time, crazy low self-esteem, etc). I recognize the characteristics from the time I dated a bi-polar when I had lower confidence.

How do I bring the dude to his sense or do I watch him crash a burn?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If he's open to information give him a link to BPDfamily.org.

Then he can at least get some information on the borderline he's dealing with.

And don't do anymore than that.

He'll have to crash and burn hard before he'll even consider getting rid of her.
 

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Thanks. Lets hope it does not come down to that and he will figure it out on his own.
 

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I kept a eye out but he learned on his own.

Always keep a eye out for your bro's when this happens.
 
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