"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well.. my gf told me some somewhat devastating news today.
First let's start about her when she' drinks, well when she drinks she tells me she can't control herself and she doesn't remember what usually happens.
Well today, she told me about what happened to her last christmas, way before we started the relationship.
She told me she was at a party and she got really drunk, passed out, and evidently i guess it would be considered rape.
I don't know what to feel.. because it's in the past it shouldn't matter, but i'm more concerned if anything. I'm really really confused right now too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I did, and now she's all depressed and worried about me leaving her. I guess I don't know how i should be feeling when i heard news like that, at least she's honest, right?
 
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had same thing happened to my ex before I knew her...but she wasn't drinking, some ******* took her somewhere else..

Talk.
 
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Yeah i did, she doesn't seem to like bringing it up too much, she seemed really distant when talking about it. I wouldn't doubt that when it happened to her she was devastated. I just dont know how to handle this, I can't really comfort her very well on this topic either.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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now you shut up about it, don't say a word more about it and carry on life as normal.

It's a trust building process.

Just...eventually, tell her something about you.
 
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agree with docs but also remember.,..your supposed to be the man in the relationship....it either bothers you enough to dump her...or it doesnt bother you at all... ltr's are a constant power struggle and you MUST remain on top if you wanna keep her
 
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