Not wanting to go out any more

[Murk]

I used to be a party animal from 18 years old to early this year (30). Now I couldn’t think of anything worse than going out spending money with boring people, doing coke maybe, coming home drunk with memory loss and feeling hung over all day.

I went out on New Years to a rave, bumped into my ex (reason I joined this forum) and her (who I assume to be) weasel looking beta bf - that was quite fun. It took me 2 days to recover! To be fair I got home at 8am and took an assortment of drugs.

But this whole Xmas period I didn’t go out, I stayed home with my girl for some of it, chilled saw family. I have 0 need to go and get drunk outside. I’ve felt this way for about 6-8 months now.

Is it because I’ve been there and done it?Because I’m seeing a decent girl who looks after my needs? Because I’m now 30? Lots of my friends have kids/engaged now so maybe it’s that but I just love staying in my house and relaxing, cooking, hosting, drinking wine.

Am I turning into an old man?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Yeah don’t listen to the guy above me, he doesn’t know what he’s talking about.


It’s age. Your hormones are just now starting to take a dip, so the way you feel in general has changed. Side effects? Maybe a little less energy for all that, but your priorities probably hanged too. Otherwise, you’d be much more adamant about cheating on your girl (knowing you based off your previous posting history, you’d probably have done it by now already) and it wouldn’t have phased you.

It’s not a bad thing either per se, doing that **** all the time will take a toll on your body. Besides, you don’t want to be the ‘old man’ in the club anyway lol

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

lol wait til you hit 50. I have no interest in going out or drinking anymore and chasing women to far is to much effort.
I just stay at home and do my dating from my laptop now. You're on the downhill slide now, the next 20 yrs will go by fast so make them memorable

 

[Murk]

lol wait til you hit 50. I have no interest in going out or drinking anymore and chasing women to far is to much effort.
I just stay at home and do my dating from my laptop now. You're on the downhill slide now, the next 20 yrs will go by fast so make them memorable

LOL! Don’t scare me like that!

Yeah my urge has gone, hangovers last longer, I have more responsibility in life to be successful.

My drive is still there and I constantly want sex though, with different women, I just can’t really be bothered to get it.

I saw a few girls I’ve banged over the years on Facebook, I thought about when we had sex, I can’t remember a thing, I can’t even fantasise about all the sex and women I’ve banged because I can’t remember, maybe it wasn’t that great. It feels good at the time then it disappears.

Also - don’t crucify me here - I really want a young girl. Aged 18-22 they are so fun. I find myself actively trawling OLD for a PYT.

 

[Glassguy]

Drug use has caught up with you.

 

[Mike32ct]

It’s not over until you find yourself paying the cashier with exact change lol.