"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not trying to impress her

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if you are buying her flowers for her B-Day go ahead.

otehr than that still wait.

it's an odd adage in horse racing... you can always make up for not training hard enough in workouts by jogging and other things throughout the week, but if you work a horse too hard in a workout, there is nothing whatsoever you can do to take it back

meaning, if you mess up, it's rather you go too slow than too fast.
 
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Well she got me a Lacoste golf shirt for my b-day. so thats good interest level on her part.
 
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she sent me a txt saying she heard a love song and thought of me.
 
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dude.. if you are going to buy her something buy it. but don't come here asking for advice from guys who actually get ass, dont' hear what you want to hear, then try for 15 posts to try to justify why you should buy her something
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nah, i'm just talking. i've decided not to buy her anything for a while. than surprise gift her.
 
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