"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Not trying to impress her

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

B

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
if you are buying her flowers for her B-Day go ahead.

otehr than that still wait.

it's an odd adage in horse racing... you can always make up for not training hard enough in workouts by jogging and other things throughout the week, but if you work a horse too hard in a workout, there is nothing whatsoever you can do to take it back

meaning, if you mess up, it's rather you go too slow than too fast.
 
I

inzone50

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2007
Messages
186
Reaction score
0
Well she got me a Lacoste golf shirt for my b-day. so thats good interest level on her part.
 
I

inzone50

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2007
Messages
186
Reaction score
0
she sent me a txt saying she heard a love song and thought of me.
 
B

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
dude.. if you are going to buy her something buy it. but don't come here asking for advice from guys who actually get ass, dont' hear what you want to hear, then try for 15 posts to try to justify why you should buy her something
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

I

inzone50

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2007
Messages
186
Reaction score
0
nah, i'm just talking. i've decided not to buy her anything for a while. than surprise gift her.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top