"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not trying to impress her

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if you are buying her flowers for her B-Day go ahead.

otehr than that still wait.

it's an odd adage in horse racing... you can always make up for not training hard enough in workouts by jogging and other things throughout the week, but if you work a horse too hard in a workout, there is nothing whatsoever you can do to take it back

meaning, if you mess up, it's rather you go too slow than too fast.
 
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Well she got me a Lacoste golf shirt for my b-day. so thats good interest level on her part.
 
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she sent me a txt saying she heard a love song and thought of me.
 
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dude.. if you are going to buy her something buy it. but don't come here asking for advice from guys who actually get ass, dont' hear what you want to hear, then try for 15 posts to try to justify why you should buy her something
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nah, i'm just talking. i've decided not to buy her anything for a while. than surprise gift her.
 
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