"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not too sure what to do here...

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Not too sure what to do here...should I step it up?

Here is the situation:

In my business management class, there is this attractive girl that sits next too me. I chat with her on a regular basis like before class starts and after class ends when we are walking out etc. And of course, I don't to it ALL the time, I don't want to come off a needy. But just as an example, today when I arrived at school and was walking from my car to the school, I ran into her doing the same. She seemed all smiley and happy. But the thing is that I have JUST been chatting with her like I said and this has been going on since pretty much the beginning of the semester....So this leads me to a few questions:

First, do you guys think its a little too late to make a move? Like do you think I'm more in the friend zone now?

Second, If its not too late, I was thinking about asking her out to lunch after class to get to know her a little better nad kind of clue to her that I kind of like her...is this a good idea of bad idea?

My last question is kind of a stupid one...but whatever. Before the business class today, I saw her with some kid (both leaning against the wall talking...you know that pose)...and I have seen her with this kid walking to class before. And it is kind of giving me an idea that she is into him. (this is also what lead me to post this...because I am def going to step it up now) Now, I am not gay but honestly, I think he is def not attractive and kind of weird looking. I cannot see her with this kid. But when I was walking past them, she saw me and gave me a big long smile right in front of this kid. What does that mean... is that a friends kind of thing, a make this guy I'm with jealous kind of thing, and interested in you thing....etc? Hmm...thoughts?:confused:

I think I am trying to way over analyze this lol.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Get her number, and if you have it, use it.
I'm not the greatest, but I see that.
 

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Prof already said it best.

You are thinking way too hard. Maybe it is too late, maybe it's not. Maybe she is into this other dude, maybe she's not. Maybe she's a lesbian, maybe she's not. Maybe she is a serial killer, maybe she's not. Only one thing to do....

GO FOR IT OR FORGET ABOUT IT!

Why is one woman so important that you would take this much effort in thinking about her when you should have more important things to do? That's the only question you should be worried about.

EDIT: Just think logically. Waiting may have decreased your chances with the girl, maybe. But if you don't try anything your chances are 0. What's do you have to lose?
 
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