"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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About 5 months back I was dating a girl here on base in the same dorm building as me. I spent that whole month and a half or so with a big headache as she caused drama a lot. ANyways Saturday night out of nowhere she knocked on my door and as soon as I answered she hugged me. Since we broke up shes tried to get back together which resulted in me changing my number like 2 times and I pretty much ignored her til she gave up. She wanted me to stay with her the night Saturday(which I did cause I was just trying to hit it to be honest) and the next day I found out the reason this whole thing started was because she just broke up with her bf and she said I was the last person she could remember who cared. Ive been trying to keep things cool so theres no drama. Anyways in the past few days shes asked my twice how I felt about her. How should I respond to this? I pretty much told her it doesnt matter how I feel cause I think shes just in a vulnerable position since she just brokeup.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you feel?
 
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Did you hit it on Saturday night? Try to encourage her to work things out with her b/f. Thats the only quick fix that I can think of to get her off your back.
 
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Well I really cared about her when we were dating but its been like 5 months and I dont think shes changed. I just feel bad for her cause I know she has some issues and puts up a front in front of other people. At this point I dont really wanna get into anything serious with her since I dont see things going any better than before..but I sure as he!! wouldnt mind hitting it again. I think Id be wasting my time and setting myself up for failure if I tried to date her again.
 
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Ok, if you haven't hit it yet, don't do it. Think about it bro, she was so psycho that you had to change your number not once but twice. Heck, I'd seriously consider moving as well if she's that much drama because she knows she can basically knock on your door and she's right back in there again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did you hit it on Saturday night? Try to encourage her to work things out with her b/f. Thats the only quick fix that I can think of to get her off your back.
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No, though I stayed with her the night in her bed. We made out and at one point she was on top and I was feeling her up. She moved my hand away when I went for her pu$$y. Last night we kissed a lil as well though I left instead of staying the night with her. Apparently she really cared about her last bf and she said he pissed her off and she punched him in the mouth. lol
 
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Apparently she really cared about her last bf and she said he pissed her off and she punched him in the mouth. lol
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Oxymoron.


You must have a real lack of options right now if your considering hitting a psycho chick who punches people that she really cares about.
 
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Oxymoron.


You must have a real lack of options right now if your considering hitting a psycho chick who punches people that she really cares about.
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Yea you've got me there. Im not gonna get into anything serious with her. Just gonna try and be friends and maybe hit it if she inniates.
 
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All I have to say is if you hit it, you'll have to change your number a couple more times.

Think about it like this: Drinking 15 beers is all fine and dandy on Saturday Night, Just be prepared to deal with the hangover come Sunday Morning.

If you do hit this girl again, just be ready to deal with all her BS you going to have to endure.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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