"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not This Again!

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About 5 months back I was dating a girl here on base in the same dorm building as me. I spent that whole month and a half or so with a big headache as she caused drama a lot. ANyways Saturday night out of nowhere she knocked on my door and as soon as I answered she hugged me. Since we broke up shes tried to get back together which resulted in me changing my number like 2 times and I pretty much ignored her til she gave up. She wanted me to stay with her the night Saturday(which I did cause I was just trying to hit it to be honest) and the next day I found out the reason this whole thing started was because she just broke up with her bf and she said I was the last person she could remember who cared. Ive been trying to keep things cool so theres no drama. Anyways in the past few days shes asked my twice how I felt about her. How should I respond to this? I pretty much told her it doesnt matter how I feel cause I think shes just in a vulnerable position since she just brokeup.
Looking for input, sorry for the lack of paragraph formation.:crazy:
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you feel?
 

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Did you hit it on Saturday night? Try to encourage her to work things out with her b/f. Thats the only quick fix that I can think of to get her off your back.
 

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Well I really cared about her when we were dating but its been like 5 months and I dont think shes changed. I just feel bad for her cause I know she has some issues and puts up a front in front of other people. At this point I dont really wanna get into anything serious with her since I dont see things going any better than before..but I sure as he!! wouldnt mind hitting it again. I think Id be wasting my time and setting myself up for failure if I tried to date her again.
 

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Ok, if you haven't hit it yet, don't do it. Think about it bro, she was so psycho that you had to change your number not once but twice. Heck, I'd seriously consider moving as well if she's that much drama because she knows she can basically knock on your door and she's right back in there again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MacAvoy said:
Did you hit it on Saturday night? Try to encourage her to work things out with her b/f. Thats the only quick fix that I can think of to get her off your back.

No, though I stayed with her the night in her bed. We made out and at one point she was on top and I was feeling her up. She moved my hand away when I went for her pu$$y. Last night we kissed a lil as well though I left instead of staying the night with her. Apparently she really cared about her last bf and she said he pissed her off and she punched him in the mouth. lol
 

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Apparently she really cared about her last bf and she said he pissed her off and she punched him in the mouth. lol
Oxymoron.


You must have a real lack of options right now if your considering hitting a psycho chick who punches people that she really cares about.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Oxymoron.


You must have a real lack of options right now if your considering hitting a psycho chick who punches people that she really cares about.
Yea you've got me there. Im not gonna get into anything serious with her. Just gonna try and be friends and maybe hit it if she inniates.
 

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All I have to say is if you hit it, you'll have to change your number a couple more times.

Think about it like this: Drinking 15 beers is all fine and dandy on Saturday Night, Just be prepared to deal with the hangover come Sunday Morning.

If you do hit this girl again, just be ready to deal with all her BS you going to have to endure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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