"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok so yesterday on myspace this hb8-9 messaged me and sent me a friend request saying she couldnt help but add me and that Im super cute and all. Btw shes about 4 hrs from me which is the downfall here. Well we ended up messaging each other from 1am to like 5am. She asked for my number and I got hers. Shes really cool and we have some things in common. But with her being 4 hrs away Im not sure how I should handle this. btw Im in the military so having a gf a lil ways a way isnt too far out of the question, assuming shes good enough which this one seems to be so far. So where how and where should I take this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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amnbyrd said:
Ok so yesterday on myspace this hb8-9 messaged me and sent me a friend request saying she couldnt help but add me and that Im super cute and all. Btw shes about 4 hrs from me which is the downfall here. Well we ended up messaging each other from 1am to like 5am. She asked for my number and I got hers. Shes really cool and we have some things in common. But with her being 4 hrs away Im not sure how I should handle this. btw Im in the military so having a gf a lil ways a way isnt too far out of the question, assuming shes good enough which this one seems to be so far. So where how and where should I take this?
Try and keep it as a sexual thing. getting attached to a girl thats far is a disaster. How do i know? Hmm.. Picture being in a relationship with someone from the Mid West and you in the North East <~~ ive been there. Anyway, dont take it too seriously but keep it cool. Talk to her, be friends, hook up in person even but getting involved will lead to heartache.
 

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Stormwatch13 said:
if shes on myspace shes probably flirting with 10 guys. you arent special.
Correct.
 
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