"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok so yesterday on myspace this hb8-9 messaged me and sent me a friend request saying she couldnt help but add me and that Im super cute and all. Btw shes about 4 hrs from me which is the downfall here. Well we ended up messaging each other from 1am to like 5am. She asked for my number and I got hers. Shes really cool and we have some things in common. But with her being 4 hrs away Im not sure how I should handle this. btw Im in the military so having a gf a lil ways a way isnt too far out of the question, assuming shes good enough which this one seems to be so far. So where how and where should I take this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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amnbyrd said:
Ok so yesterday on myspace this hb8-9 messaged me and sent me a friend request saying she couldnt help but add me and that Im super cute and all. Btw shes about 4 hrs from me which is the downfall here. Well we ended up messaging each other from 1am to like 5am. She asked for my number and I got hers. Shes really cool and we have some things in common. But with her being 4 hrs away Im not sure how I should handle this. btw Im in the military so having a gf a lil ways a way isnt too far out of the question, assuming shes good enough which this one seems to be so far. So where how and where should I take this?
Try and keep it as a sexual thing. getting attached to a girl thats far is a disaster. How do i know? Hmm.. Picture being in a relationship with someone from the Mid West and you in the North East <~~ ive been there. Anyway, dont take it too seriously but keep it cool. Talk to her, be friends, hook up in person even but getting involved will lead to heartache.
 

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Stormwatch13 said:
if shes on myspace shes probably flirting with 10 guys. you arent special.
Correct.
 
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