"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok so yesterday on myspace this hb8-9 messaged me and sent me a friend request saying she couldnt help but add me and that Im super cute and all. Btw shes about 4 hrs from me which is the downfall here. Well we ended up messaging each other from 1am to like 5am. She asked for my number and I got hers. Shes really cool and we have some things in common. But with her being 4 hrs away Im not sure how I should handle this. btw Im in the military so having a gf a lil ways a way isnt too far out of the question, assuming shes good enough which this one seems to be so far. So where how and where should I take this?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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amnbyrd said:
Ok so yesterday on myspace this hb8-9 messaged me and sent me a friend request saying she couldnt help but add me and that Im super cute and all. Btw shes about 4 hrs from me which is the downfall here. Well we ended up messaging each other from 1am to like 5am. She asked for my number and I got hers. Shes really cool and we have some things in common. But with her being 4 hrs away Im not sure how I should handle this. btw Im in the military so having a gf a lil ways a way isnt too far out of the question, assuming shes good enough which this one seems to be so far. So where how and where should I take this?
Try and keep it as a sexual thing. getting attached to a girl thats far is a disaster. How do i know? Hmm.. Picture being in a relationship with someone from the Mid West and you in the North East <~~ ive been there. Anyway, dont take it too seriously but keep it cool. Talk to her, be friends, hook up in person even but getting involved will lead to heartache.
 

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Stormwatch13 said:
if shes on myspace shes probably flirting with 10 guys. you arent special.
Correct.
 
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