"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not sure what to think lately..

drf408

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In some sense you could say I'm lucky. I've never had to have much game, its always been a given that something good will come up to me. Once this happens i usually do very well, always something to say ect. However lately, i am just going up and down, meeting some hot women and making a decent connection, but then nothing. This happens more than not lately, tonight for example this girl was supposed to call me about me meeting her out tonight. Nada. Yet she initiated txting this week ect..however i cant help but feel as if my value has been dropping. Perhaps my phone convo, albeit brief is that bad?It's not a healthy state to be in though, feeling like a king but the quickly falling hard..it happens a lot lately. My friends think I'm lucky yet i dont feel so lucky lately.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow..it sucks and im trying to get past judging my value based on the reactions i get from women. I dont like it, however its only one piece of the pie that is life. I would like to hear others experiences on this but what do you mean by "im likley to end it all. painfully."?? Nothing is that bad...
 
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