In some sense you could say I'm lucky. I've never had to have much game, its always been a given that something good will come up to me. Once this happens i usually do very well, always something to say ect. However lately, i am just going up and down, meeting some hot women and making a decent connection, but then nothing. This happens more than not lately, tonight for example this girl was supposed to call me about me meeting her out tonight. Nada. Yet she initiated txting this week ect..however i cant help but feel as if my value has been dropping. Perhaps my phone convo, albeit brief is that bad?It's not a healthy state to be in though, feeling like a king but the quickly falling hard..it happens a lot lately. My friends think I'm lucky yet i dont feel so lucky lately.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not sure what to think lately..
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