"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not sure what to think lately..

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In some sense you could say I'm lucky. I've never had to have much game, its always been a given that something good will come up to me. Once this happens i usually do very well, always something to say ect. However lately, i am just going up and down, meeting some hot women and making a decent connection, but then nothing. This happens more than not lately, tonight for example this girl was supposed to call me about me meeting her out tonight. Nada. Yet she initiated txting this week ect..however i cant help but feel as if my value has been dropping. Perhaps my phone convo, albeit brief is that bad?It's not a healthy state to be in though, feeling like a king but the quickly falling hard..it happens a lot lately. My friends think I'm lucky yet i dont feel so lucky lately.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow..it sucks and im trying to get past judging my value based on the reactions i get from women. I dont like it, however its only one piece of the pie that is life. I would like to hear others experiences on this but what do you mean by "im likley to end it all. painfully."?? Nothing is that bad...
 
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