"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dreamin'_Dylan

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After my first post in this forum, I recieved some advice that acted as a sort of wake up call. Since then I've been talking to girls more frequently, and now I need more advice. I've been talking to a girl named Sarah for about a week now, and it's easy enough to tell how attracted to me she is, and I really want to start dating her, but there's a problem. To put it shortly, her mother hates me. She (Sarahs mother) used to be my bus driver back in middle school, and I wasn't exactly the most well-behaved middle schooler. It goes without saying that there's no chance in hell she'd late me date her daughter. So what do I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NorwegianDJ

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That's bull****. Just greet her with a smile and spend five minutes with her.
Now, go kiss Sarah.
 

AlexLefty

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We live in America, she can lie to her mother without getting her head chopped off or something. Otherwise, it shouldn't be hard to win her mother back.

Do the summer bootcamp.
 

alxrose04

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There are a couple of ways this could go:
A. You can go on and pursue the girl and if she want's to date you, she'll date you. Young girls tend to be rebellious like that.

B. Prove the mother wrong, and show her by your actions or by taking responsibility for you behavior. Hopefully, she'll see that you've grown

C. Screw it all, and date all the girls you can. At 16, you have MANY women ahead of you!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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