"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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not sure what to do

Dreamin'_Dylan

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After my first post in this forum, I recieved some advice that acted as a sort of wake up call. Since then I've been talking to girls more frequently, and now I need more advice. I've been talking to a girl named Sarah for about a week now, and it's easy enough to tell how attracted to me she is, and I really want to start dating her, but there's a problem. To put it shortly, her mother hates me. She (Sarahs mother) used to be my bus driver back in middle school, and I wasn't exactly the most well-behaved middle schooler. It goes without saying that there's no chance in hell she'd late me date her daughter. So what do I do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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That's bull****. Just greet her with a smile and spend five minutes with her.
Now, go kiss Sarah.
 

AlexLefty

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We live in America, she can lie to her mother without getting her head chopped off or something. Otherwise, it shouldn't be hard to win her mother back.

Do the summer bootcamp.
 

alxrose04

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There are a couple of ways this could go:
A. You can go on and pursue the girl and if she want's to date you, she'll date you. Young girls tend to be rebellious like that.

B. Prove the mother wrong, and show her by your actions or by taking responsibility for you behavior. Hopefully, she'll see that you've grown

C. Screw it all, and date all the girls you can. At 16, you have MANY women ahead of you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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