"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay here's what happened...
1. I added some girl on facebook that used to go to my high school...
2. She adds me and doesn't even know who I am really/doesn't remember me
3. I tell her
4. She asks me if i want to take her to grad/prom
5. I say sure as long as she doesn't embarrass me
6. Next day she confirms that im not going to ditch her
7. I say I'm not going to...
Then me and my friends get into a conversation about who we're going with. I tell them I'm going with that girl, word spreads.
Word gets back to me that noone likes her and that she's only using me to get into my highschool's grad/prom.

I promised her I would go with her... but on the other hand she manipulated me and everyone that's cool/of importance in my school HATE her which would damage my social proof kind of. Ask if you need more details.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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limerick said:
5. I say sure as long as she doesn't embarrass me.
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Well, if she embarrasses you, that's your escape clause.
 
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Well everyone wants me not to bring her at all...
 
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noone likes her,everyone wants me not to bring her at all...
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honestly it sounds like if you bring her there is going to be ALOT of drama

she manipulated me
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how?
do you know why she want to go to prom at your school/ with you?

Everything you said, leads to one conclusion; don't bring her to prom.

but then the question becomes what do you want?
-to take her because you like her

If I were you I would find out why she wants to go to prom at your school (does she want to come to start sh!t, is she coming because she likes you?).
 
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how good lookin is she? Some people hate on better lookin people, its just the way of the world. Also find out if shes sexually liberated so if you do take her at least youll get some booty. Its important that shes hot AND skanky, if not then i say dont take her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Apparently she just wanted to use me to get into the grad dinner/dance.

I don't really 'like' her because i don't really know her...she's probably about a 6.5-7
 
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Just tell her the truth...that for some reason that you don't know, all of your friends don't like her and are mad at you for inviting her and you don't think it's a good idea for you to take her because people probably wouldn't treat her well and it'd be a big drama. Tell her that you'll still go out with her another time and another place, but that you really don't want your night ruined over drama.
 
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Wyldfire said:
Just tell her the truth...that for some reason that you don't know, all of your friends don't like her and are mad at you for inviting her and you don't think it's a good idea for you to take her because people probably wouldn't treat her well and it'd be a big drama. Tell her that you'll still go out with her another time and another place, but that you really don't want your night ruined over drama.
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I love you Wyldfire. <3
 
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I really don't understand the root cause of it, tho. I suspect feminism. ("I don't need a man. I need to take charge of my life, study hard, and pursue a career" and all that.)
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wow, that was amazing :cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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