Not sure what to do...

[limerick]

Okay here's what happened...
1. I added some girl on facebook that used to go to my high school...
2. She adds me and doesn't even know who I am really/doesn't remember me
3. I tell her
4. She asks me if i want to take her to grad/prom
5. I say sure as long as she doesn't embarrass me
6. Next day she confirms that im not going to ditch her
7. I say I'm not going to...
Then me and my friends get into a conversation about who we're going with. I tell them I'm going with that girl, word spreads.
Word gets back to me that noone likes her and that she's only using me to get into my highschool's grad/prom.

I promised her I would go with her... but on the other hand she manipulated me and everyone that's cool/of importance in my school HATE her which would damage my social proof kind of. Ask if you need more details.

 

[EdHunter]

5. I say sure as long as she doesn't embarrass me.

Well, if she embarrasses you, that's your escape clause.

 

[limerick]

Well everyone wants me not to bring her at all...

 

[2_intense2]

noone likes her,everyone wants me not to bring her at all...

honestly it sounds like if you bring her there is going to be ALOT of drama

she manipulated me

how?
do you know why she want to go to prom at your school/ with you?

Everything you said, leads to one conclusion; don't bring her to prom.

but then the question becomes what do you want?
-to take her because you like her

If I were you I would find out why she wants to go to prom at your school (does she want to come to start sh!t, is she coming because she likes you?).

 

[NSUballer]

how good lookin is she? Some people hate on better lookin people, its just the way of the world. Also find out if shes sexually liberated so if you do take her at least youll get some booty. Its important that shes hot AND skanky, if not then i say dont take her.

 

[limerick]

Apparently she just wanted to use me to get into the grad dinner/dance.

I don't really 'like' her because i don't really know her...she's probably about a 6.5-7

 

[2_intense2]

sorry, but I don't see the problem. Drop her.

 

[Wyldfire]

Just tell her the truth...that for some reason that you don't know, all of your friends don't like her and are mad at you for inviting her and you don't think it's a good idea for you to take her because people probably wouldn't treat her well and it'd be a big drama. Tell her that you'll still go out with her another time and another place, but that you really don't want your night ruined over drama.

 

[limerick]

Just tell her the truth...that for some reason that you don't know, all of your friends don't like her and are mad at you for inviting her and you don't think it's a good idea for you to take her because people probably wouldn't treat her well and it'd be a big drama. Tell her that you'll still go out with her another time and another place, but that you really don't want your night ruined over drama.

I love you Wyldfire. <3

 

[Obsidian]

I really don't understand the root cause of it, tho. I suspect feminism. ("I don't need a man. I need to take charge of my life, study hard, and pursue a career" and all that.)

wow, that was amazing :cheer: