You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Show Me Your Track-Record/Portfolio or How Long Have You Been in Business
Pete, past performance does not guarantee future results. If such were the case then all future traders would be billionaires.
I have limited business experience, but extensive academic experience. I hold a Master’s degree in … Education simply is a business tool that uses current market trends, concepts, and studies to create a concrete road map for best business practices. These 10 aberrations I identified are not minor marketing errors (Point to the the Xs in the diagram). These egregious errors can affect your business tremendously. ABC Corporation exercised poor business judgment by ignoring the red flags in their marketing literature, despite evidence to the contrary. We are all subject to the universal marketing laws governed by rhetoric. And I am here to serve you.
What you are retaining is not only this service. You are hiring an educated professional whose only intention to fully service your best business interests. I am the professional who will work 16-hour days, six days a week to serve you. I am the professional who will pick up the phone 2 a.m. on Sunday, not turn my phone off, and work all night for a newfound marketing literature needed for your client by Monday morning. I am the professional who you can call at any time in the near or far future to get an honest, qualified, and competent opinion of your new marketing venture. I am the professional who will stand by you and your business, prioritizing your business interests first before my personal time. I am your devoted partner in and out of business.
How do you quantify or place a value on such an allegiance?
Give me one shot here. Give me 1% of your confidence, and I promise you, that I will earn the other 99% (Say slowly with conviction and authority).
This objection may be meritorious. Try to extract what the prospect’s true contention is.I Don’t Know or I’m Not Feeling Comfortable
I can appreciate that. What exactly is holding you back?
For other objections, begin with (1) “I can appreciate that,” (2) followed by a concrete example, (3) abstract development of why their objection is futile in comparison to the “potential threat” of not moving forward, and (4) close.I Can’t Afford It
I can appreciate that Pete. Look, I’m not here to break the piggy-bank. I am willing to work with you via a payment plan. Even if you pay some of the installments after my work has been completed. I can break up the retainer in 2, 3, or 4 installments.
This meeting is about servicing your business needs to increase company revenue. Based on my review and analysis, I believe you stand to lose a great deal more by ignoring these red flags (Point to the Xs in the diagram). I also earnestly believe that these alterations (point to the bullets) in your literature will increase your net revenue exceedingly. Take _______ for example (Point to the most egregious misstep in the Diagram). By ___________ and correcting this aberration alone, you will increase your marketability because ______________. Give me the shot here; I believe you will have a striking result!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No idea. I've never done this before!guru1000 said:How many total hours would it take you to revise the language on her website?
For now, you will accept every prospect, irrespective of the counter-offer for two reasons:Pete, at the in-person appointment, if you are thoroughly thrilled with the recommendations made by representative, what is the absolute most you would be willing to spend for our services?
Call Prospect 1 in two days with the above.Pete, every mutually rewarding relationship is built on trust and compromise. As a matter of business and principle, I request $1,000 for my services, you countered at $300; meet me in the middle at $500. Fair enough?!
<No> Pete, let me ask you one question. If I were to accept $300, which is below the threshold with which I would normally work, and I did revise your literature, and resultantly you did see significant growth, how many referrals would you send me?
<Many> Pete, if I accept $300, revise your literature, and increase your bottom line significantly, I want you to send me at least five referrals. Now is that fair enough?!
<Sure> OK, then, let’s proceed.
Ok. Will do.guru1000 said:Call Prospect 1 in two days with the above.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you deviate from the pitch, no need to proceed; deal is dead.Pete, on the phone I told you that I would need 15 minutes of your undivided attention. Allow me to finish my presentation, and if you have any comments or suggestions, please voice them when my presentation is completed. OK?!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ok. I stuck strictly to the script.guru1000 said:Status on Prospect 1?
Billionaire Morty, an investment banker, once told me::-) said:Well it was already shot to pieces after yesterday's appointment. So it couldn't have got any lower really.
Self-confidence is forged through a track-record, engendered by base hits, spawn from a myriad rejections:-) said:[M]y biggest obstacle. Self-confidence.
We are ALL salesmen.:-) said:but scriptwriting is no different only that it sells ideas instead of products
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.