"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im in a very boring college art class that started couple weeks ago.. At the beginning i saw this girl she seems pretty shy, and quiet and sits all the way in the front, i sit alll the way in the corner in the back... Last week i walk in to class i take my seat, then later she comes in and takes her seat and seems to notice me and looks at me (seemed like she liked what she saw, or didnt know such a cutie was in her class lol)

Then once again last thursday we exchange glances..... Then today i talk to my boy in the back , while giving a glance towards her checking her out, she looks at me again...

I noticed im the only guy she looks at, when i look at her.. I havent noticed her looking at anybody else (Its not a stare just seems our eyes end up finding each other

What do you guys think? Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you should've came up and said hi about 5 times now.

Then ask her for a walk after class, or something.

DUH!
 
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Well don't quite "ask" for a walk after class. Rather, if you have time accompany her to where shes going.

And after you know her name, if she comes in after you, call her over to where you're sitting.

You're in college now. So you're lucky, theres good looking friendly chix everywhere. What i do, is i'm just super friendly and I make lots of friends, and then with some of them I escalate. You can usually tell which.

So basically, be really friendly and don't worry about anything.

Rhino

PS. Ice Cold, whereabouts in TO are you?
 
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Originally posted by yankees13
But it seems there is some interest on her part also, correct?
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how in the h*ll are we supposed to know if she is interested? She's not in our class, she's in your class. Freakin ask her out and find out for yourself... or wait until the last day of class, when she is certain of your lack of bravery and get turned down for sure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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^ First of all i wasnt asking you to be Nostradamus and make a prediction.. All i did was i described what happens between us in class, i would think some of you might have been in this/similar situation and know whats going on.
 
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Throw her a big smile. If she smiles back, or looks down, go say hi to her. Unless it's in the middle of class...if so, you may want to wait until after, or before the next class. :p
 
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yes, it sounds like she likes you, but are opinion doesn't matter. What do you really gain from it? Do you get to come back and shun us because it turns out she didn't like you? Here's how it is plainand simple....THERE IS ATTRACTION THERE. It could be gone be the next lesson because of your inability to do ANYTHING, or maybe she talks to you and finds out that you aren't her type of guy. To me it looks doomed from the start because she's more than likely been on your mind 24/7 and you think she's the prize. Read Pooks new post in the tips section.
 
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No she has not been on my mind 24/7.. Im just getting bored in school already and wouldnt mind messing with someone.. Thanks for your response though.... Whatever, if i see her before class or after ill just say hi, ask her what she got on the quiz we took recently, and introduce myself and leave it at that, and then we can talk more later on, im in no rush.
 
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so you gonna play it off like you aint ever seen her staring at you, and go back to square one.... interesting. Try to have a bit of a better conversation than every single college/university student seems to be having. I'm not saying you gotta always rush it, but this aint high school anymore, this is college, the gurls are looking for the right excuse to date (but more likely f0ck) somebody. It will most likely be the guy that says something more than "Hi< didya do the homework" I mean that's elementary sh!t
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yankees, you always wait too long to make your moves - quit hesitating and take action - you and she seem to have enough interest in each other - talk to her and ask her out to go roller skating! or skydiving, or something besides exchanging glances!! :)

HESITATION KILLS!!!! BE A MAN AND DO YOUR DUTY - QUIT STALLING!!
 
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YANKES13 !

Im in a very boring college art class that started couple weeks ago.. At the beginning i saw this girl she seems pretty shy, and quiet and sits all the way in the front, i sit alll the way in the corner in the back... Last week i walk in to class i take my seat, then later she comes in and takes her seat and seems to notice me and looks at me (seemed like she liked what she saw, or didnt know such a cutie was in her class lol)
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TALK TO HER TODAY !

I'm a med student, and had this happen to me. This chick was totally checking me out for days across the room...

BUT like a dumbass, I did nothing. (Was oneitising on a chick I wanted first)

Now my buddy is banging her....

HB8 too.

She was looking for the ****, man. And I passed it up. Your chick may be the same way....
 
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