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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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not sure if my FWB want's a relationship but I want to make her my GF. please help.

MGKbrad

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-been seeing this girl for a few months

-she's really into me

-started having sex not long after getting to know eachother and have sex on a regular basis since then

-i'm the only person she's seeing, shes told me that theres no other guys in the picture at all

-severeal times after we had sex shed bring up the "what we are" talk, i told her multiple times that were more than just sex and that i liked hanging out with her blah blah but didn't mention anything about a relationship at the time cuz at the time i didnt want one

just recently ive started to fall for her for some reason, but im not sure what to do. the last few times we've hung out/had sex she hasnt mentioned anything about what we are or any talk about a relationship, why is this? i'm thinking of bringing it up next time i see her but i don't want to come off as needy or ruin what we have going.

how should i handle this? i really like this girl now and would like to move on to the next step.

should i just keep goin with it and hope she brings it up again? and if she does bring it up again how should i tell her i wanna take it to the next level?

should i just bring it up the next time i see her regardless?


thanks,


- Brad
 

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I would carry on as you are and hope she brings it up again, maybe if she hasn't in a few weeks you could do it. There's a chance she doesn't want to keep bring it up if you've kinda dismissed it in the past.
 

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Just been in this situation. became needy and dependful of her. Of course she stoped texting me, but i went NC too.

Keep the same attitude you had that made her start to have sex with you.
 
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