"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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not sure if my FWB want's a relationship but I want to make her my GF. please help.

MGKbrad

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-been seeing this girl for a few months

-she's really into me

-started having sex not long after getting to know eachother and have sex on a regular basis since then

-i'm the only person she's seeing, shes told me that theres no other guys in the picture at all

-severeal times after we had sex shed bring up the "what we are" talk, i told her multiple times that were more than just sex and that i liked hanging out with her blah blah but didn't mention anything about a relationship at the time cuz at the time i didnt want one

just recently ive started to fall for her for some reason, but im not sure what to do. the last few times we've hung out/had sex she hasnt mentioned anything about what we are or any talk about a relationship, why is this? i'm thinking of bringing it up next time i see her but i don't want to come off as needy or ruin what we have going.

how should i handle this? i really like this girl now and would like to move on to the next step.

should i just keep goin with it and hope she brings it up again? and if she does bring it up again how should i tell her i wanna take it to the next level?

should i just bring it up the next time i see her regardless?


thanks,


- Brad
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would carry on as you are and hope she brings it up again, maybe if she hasn't in a few weeks you could do it. There's a chance she doesn't want to keep bring it up if you've kinda dismissed it in the past.
 

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Just been in this situation. became needy and dependful of her. Of course she stoped texting me, but i went NC too.

Keep the same attitude you had that made her start to have sex with you.
 
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