"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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not sure if my FWB want's a relationship but I want to make her my GF. please help.

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-been seeing this girl for a few months

-she's really into me

-started having sex not long after getting to know eachother and have sex on a regular basis since then

-i'm the only person she's seeing, shes told me that theres no other guys in the picture at all

-severeal times after we had sex shed bring up the "what we are" talk, i told her multiple times that were more than just sex and that i liked hanging out with her blah blah but didn't mention anything about a relationship at the time cuz at the time i didnt want one

just recently ive started to fall for her for some reason, but im not sure what to do. the last few times we've hung out/had sex she hasnt mentioned anything about what we are or any talk about a relationship, why is this? i'm thinking of bringing it up next time i see her but i don't want to come off as needy or ruin what we have going.

how should i handle this? i really like this girl now and would like to move on to the next step.

should i just keep goin with it and hope she brings it up again? and if she does bring it up again how should i tell her i wanna take it to the next level?

should i just bring it up the next time i see her regardless?


thanks,


- Brad
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would carry on as you are and hope she brings it up again, maybe if she hasn't in a few weeks you could do it. There's a chance she doesn't want to keep bring it up if you've kinda dismissed it in the past.
 
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Just been in this situation. became needy and dependful of her. Of course she stoped texting me, but i went NC too.

Keep the same attitude you had that made her start to have sex with you.
 
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