"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Solomon

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OP if you just got out of a relationship there are a few way you can approach this

1. Take a break nothing wrong with taking 6 months-1 year off- focus on your mental health and other aspects
2. Date casually-If you just want to have fun let the women know you just don't want something seriously some women will be down for that most won't

However with your mindset right now, you will just set yourself up for disaster because you're obviously emotionally not ready for anything right now besides maybe getting your rocks off.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay, so the main three.
The dog girl seen her a few times, that's awesome (not much to say really)

The teacher. Full on kinky one. She went quiet for a lil bit , so I forgot about her/ignored her low effort communication. I think that must of triggered some insecurities or something as she's now chasing hard.

There is also an Arabic women. Which is a wildcard.

It's like she's teleported out the 1950's, as in super traditional, submissive, so easy to lead, completely the opposite of western women, looks like a young Natalie Portman. I've only kissed her.

The kiss was a massive deal for her we kissed on the first date, I think I'm the third guy she's ever kissed in her life, she's in her early 30's (8 years younger than me), she was blown away by the kiss and can't stop talking about it.

I've put the breaks on escalating physically out of pure respect.
 
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