"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not sure how to play this one

Solomon

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OP if you just got out of a relationship there are a few way you can approach this

1. Take a break nothing wrong with taking 6 months-1 year off- focus on your mental health and other aspects
2. Date casually-If you just want to have fun let the women know you just don't want something seriously some women will be down for that most won't

However with your mindset right now, you will just set yourself up for disaster because you're obviously emotionally not ready for anything right now besides maybe getting your rocks off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, so the main three.
The dog girl seen her a few times, that's awesome (not much to say really)

The teacher. Full on kinky one. She went quiet for a lil bit , so I forgot about her/ignored her low effort communication. I think that must of triggered some insecurities or something as she's now chasing hard.

There is also an Arabic women. Which is a wildcard.

It's like she's teleported out the 1950's, as in super traditional, submissive, so easy to lead, completely the opposite of western women, looks like a young Natalie Portman. I've only kissed her.

The kiss was a massive deal for her we kissed on the first date, I think I'm the third guy she's ever kissed in her life, she's in her early 30's (8 years younger than me), she was blown away by the kiss and can't stop talking about it.

I've put the breaks on escalating physically out of pure respect.
 
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