"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not sure how to play this facebook game

lastking

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A beautiful girl that I used to work with linked me up with her friend on Facebook:woo: . The other girl messaged me and told me that she has been told good things about me...blah blah blah. The downside is that she is in Florida and am in Boston but she is pretty hot. How can I proceed and is this long distance thing even worth the effort?


Thanks guys!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zinc4

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Too far man....meet chicks in your city...
 

Peña

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If a girl you know linked you up with her it does not hurt to talk to get something going. You can have a nice Florida vacation and get laid. She can come to Boston on a trip and you can get laid. I would not put in much effort but it can work to your advantage. Meet girls in your city but it does not hurt to have other girls spread around the country where you have a lay waiting for you on your trips.
 

Uncharted

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Is she coming to Boston any time soon? Message her and ask. I see no problem with you talking to her like once a week if she's coming up soon.

Just make sure you see other girls in the meantime.
 
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