"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not sure how to play this facebook game

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A beautiful girl that I used to work with linked me up with her friend on Facebook:woo: . The other girl messaged me and told me that she has been told good things about me...blah blah blah. The downside is that she is in Florida and am in Boston but she is pretty hot. How can I proceed and is this long distance thing even worth the effort?


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Too far man....meet chicks in your city...
 
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If a girl you know linked you up with her it does not hurt to talk to get something going. You can have a nice Florida vacation and get laid. She can come to Boston on a trip and you can get laid. I would not put in much effort but it can work to your advantage. Meet girls in your city but it does not hurt to have other girls spread around the country where you have a lay waiting for you on your trips.
 
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Is she coming to Boston any time soon? Message her and ask. I see no problem with you talking to her like once a week if she's coming up soon.

Just make sure you see other girls in the meantime.
 
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