"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Not sure how to handle this...

Bronxtal112

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Met this really cute girl about 2 weeks ago and have been dating her since. She seems to be very interested in me. She mentions the future between us, tells me how cute I am, and generally wants to hang out with me. I have really never been in this situation before with a woman who has liked me so much so soon. I don’t want to reciprocate my feelings toward her even though I really like her (no challenge). How should I play this safe?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Robo-Kai

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Do not get too attached. Need to find out a bit more about her first.
 

Instinctive

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Make sure that you don't see her too often - once or twice a week, not on consecutive days. Don't have long phone conversations unless you can help it. Aslong as you don't act needy you should be fine!
 
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