"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bronxtal112

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Met this really cute girl about 2 weeks ago and have been dating her since. She seems to be very interested in me. She mentions the future between us, tells me how cute I am, and generally wants to hang out with me. I have really never been in this situation before with a woman who has liked me so much so soon. I don’t want to reciprocate my feelings toward her even though I really like her (no challenge). How should I play this safe?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do not get too attached. Need to find out a bit more about her first.
 
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Make sure that you don't see her too often - once or twice a week, not on consecutive days. Don't have long phone conversations unless you can help it. Aslong as you don't act needy you should be fine!
 
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