"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bronxtal112

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Met this really cute girl about 2 weeks ago and have been dating her since. She seems to be very interested in me. She mentions the future between us, tells me how cute I am, and generally wants to hang out with me. I have really never been in this situation before with a woman who has liked me so much so soon. I don’t want to reciprocate my feelings toward her even though I really like her (no challenge). How should I play this safe?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Robo-Kai

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Do not get too attached. Need to find out a bit more about her first.
 
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Instinctive

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Make sure that you don't see her too often - once or twice a week, not on consecutive days. Don't have long phone conversations unless you can help it. Aslong as you don't act needy you should be fine!
 
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