Here it goes. I met this a girl at a party like a month ago. I danced with her, talked to her, and got her her number. I called her 2 days later to say what's up, but it seemed she wasn't really interested in me by her ending the phone call after a minute. Then I never hear from here and forget about her. Well last night I go to another party and she's there. I say hello and have a little small talk and I dance with her. We danced for awhile like 10 minutes and I knew she was feeling me. Long story short, we end up hooking up and then some and i tell her i'll call her this weekend. Now i'm not really sure what my next move should be. Should i try to pursue her or just leave it as a hookup. Since it's not such a random hookup, I'm unclear of what i should do. What do you guys think?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not So Random hookup
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