Here it goes. I met this a girl at a party like a month ago. I danced with her, talked to her, and got her her number. I called her 2 days later to say what's up, but it seemed she wasn't really interested in me by her ending the phone call after a minute. Then I never hear from here and forget about her. Well last night I go to another party and she's there. I say hello and have a little small talk and I dance with her. We danced for awhile like 10 minutes and I knew she was feeling me. Long story short, we end up hooking up and then some and i tell her i'll call her this weekend. Now i'm not really sure what my next move should be. Should i try to pursue her or just leave it as a hookup. Since it's not such a random hookup, I'm unclear of what i should do. What do you guys think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not So Random hookup
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