Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Not So Random hookup

mvin10

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Here it goes. I met this a girl at a party like a month ago. I danced with her, talked to her, and got her her number. I called her 2 days later to say what's up, but it seemed she wasn't really interested in me by her ending the phone call after a minute. Then I never hear from here and forget about her. Well last night I go to another party and she's there. I say hello and have a little small talk and I dance with her. We danced for awhile like 10 minutes and I knew she was feeling me. Long story short, we end up hooking up and then some and i tell her i'll call her this weekend. Now i'm not really sure what my next move should be. Should i try to pursue her or just leave it as a hookup. Since it's not such a random hookup, I'm unclear of what i should do. What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Franky1927

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She wasnt interested in you when you called her. You might now be able to get some dates with her, but after some she will tell you that "she just wants to be friends". In 99% of all cases, her feelings she has about you at the beginning will never change.
 
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