Here it goes. I met this a girl at a party like a month ago. I danced with her, talked to her, and got her her number. I called her 2 days later to say what's up, but it seemed she wasn't really interested in me by her ending the phone call after a minute. Then I never hear from here and forget about her. Well last night I go to another party and she's there. I say hello and have a little small talk and I dance with her. We danced for awhile like 10 minutes and I knew she was feeling me. Long story short, we end up hooking up and then some and i tell her i'll call her this weekend. Now i'm not really sure what my next move should be. Should i try to pursue her or just leave it as a hookup. Since it's not such a random hookup, I'm unclear of what i should do. What do you guys think?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not So Random hookup
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