Not Ready

[Barrister]

“Women are the gatekeepers of sex; Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.”

Don’t ever tell a woman you want to date her. It’s her job to impress you enough to allow it. Second, it’s pretty obvious you’re trying to go from point A to point Z. This woman was “caught off guard” when you stated you “wanted her” because you clearly haven’t done anything to seduce her. Unfortunately, it’s very hard how to tell a man to be confident and charismatic. Your best bet is to watch suave men. Real or not. Like James Bond. And then go out and practice on both women and men just being charming. You just need to get comfortable in those situations and it all begins to click.

 

[Mertz09]

There's a girl I wanted to date a few months ago. When I told her that I wanted her, she gave me the "I'm not ready for a relationship" rejection. A few days later she asked me if I was mad at her since I had gone silent. My reply was that I wasn't mad. It's been a few months and I can't seem to get her out of my head.

Recently I started reading The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi and I've gone throught the plate theory,but I don't know how to begin.

So she doesn't want to go out on a date, but she is worried that you are "mad" at her? Why does she care? I would stay away from her.