Some girl who has been leading me on and ****, but also admitting to liking me. Saying how she likes me but wishes she didnt. Because she doesnt want a relatyionship because they've all turned otu ****ty for her. So i got kinda pissed because she knew she was leading me on. I said well if you want the past to ruin the future with other people then so be it. She continued to be a *****, so i just blocked her and cut off contact. I think it was the right move.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not ready for a relationship.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I think that was not bad what you did. Or you could have just shrugged it off and said ok and not talked to her anymore. However, it has always been my understanding that if the girl says she is not ready for a relationship, that usually just means she is not ready for a relationship with YOU. Believe me I have had this happen to me before too and even though she says she doesnt want a relationship right now, dont think that if she met some super cool guy who looks good and can knock it out in bed, and all that other stuff, dont think she would not date that guy if he came along right now. I think she just doesnt want it with YOU right now.
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ego........
Hey,
Women don't like to be alone.
It is an ego thing.
She is looking for a relationship, but,----he ain't you.........
Forget her and move on.
cave dweller
Hey,
Women don't like to be alone.
It is an ego thing.
She is looking for a relationship, but,----he ain't you.........
Forget her and move on.
cave dweller
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Disconnect
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I'd hit it 