"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not quite sure what to do...
- Thread starter UltraMan
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
To the most important thing first.
The Bible does not cost a thing. Click on the link and read it for free.
They say the best information is free - and in this case it's true.
Now:
Are you sure you want to be with her again? Or is it an ego thing? the I want what I can't have.
That's for you to figure out.
You got her once before - and you can do it again.
But the only problem is - now your thinking more like a girl and not like a guy.
Don't tell her your FEELINGS... don't tell her what you WANT to do - just do it.
Being needy has never got anyone.
So do what you did the first time.
Let her make it up to you. Go out and have a blast with her. Intitate physical contact - tease her, all the usual stuff.
Then when your done, drop her off and gone home and take a cold shower.
Follow up with a call a few days later to set up another date.
Don't worry about the other guy - don't panic or stress just do your thing.
The Bible does not cost a thing. Click on the link and read it for free.
They say the best information is free - and in this case it's true.
Now:
Are you sure you want to be with her again? Or is it an ego thing? the I want what I can't have.
That's for you to figure out.
You got her once before - and you can do it again.
But the only problem is - now your thinking more like a girl and not like a guy.
Don't tell her your FEELINGS... don't tell her what you WANT to do - just do it.
Being needy has never got anyone.
So do what you did the first time.
Let her make it up to you. Go out and have a blast with her. Intitate physical contact - tease her, all the usual stuff.
Then when your done, drop her off and gone home and take a cold shower.
Follow up with a call a few days later to set up another date.
Don't worry about the other guy - don't panic or stress just do your thing.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Let me get this scenario straight - you find a HB9 who you so admire - she reciprocates by desiring you then after a few months/years you give her the cold shoulder and encourage her to see (have sex) with other guys - she has sex with a few guys and now you want her back??
I take it that your "emotional problems" explains this bizarre decision making and feelings!!
Yes, she still wants you and will forsake the others to be with you if she can trust that you don't push her away again! This is a trust issue from her perspective!!!
I take it that your "emotional problems" explains this bizarre decision making and feelings!!
Yes, she still wants you and will forsake the others to be with you if she can trust that you don't push her away again! This is a trust issue from her perspective!!!