"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not making a move when the girl is too drunk

basbhat

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What do you guys think?

I've had oppurtunities to "make a move" on women I know are interested, but if they have been too drunk, I've passed.

I've always felt it may be disrespectful to her and myself as well.

Would a women view this as being a sign of disinterest, or a sign of class?Or neither? Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanMonk

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When women are drunk, they should be making all the moves. The guy who isn't as drunk should do nothing and probably even tell her to calm down/rest. To do something the girl remembers that and she might even resent that you took advantage too.
 

rockstar88

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i have this happen alot. i dont drink so i am always sober at work in the club or at parties. there are girls that i know would want to **** me sober or trashed. it just so happens that they make it very very blatent when they are drunk. i have never acted on it. they always thank you for it in the morning. it seems like the nice guy thing to do. but if you do do it it makes your more of a rapist. and i'd rather be a nice guy than a rapist. plus whats the fun of ****ing a trashed girl anyway. wheres the challenge in that.
so if she's drunk just dont do it
 

diplomatic_lies

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I avoid all drunk girls, unless she's in an LTR with me. See, even if you win the court case, you'll still be known as "Mr Rapist" (or pedofile, depending on her age)
 

Double

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so you guys are saying dont pick up chicks on partys/bars/clubs ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diplomatic_lies

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Not every chick at a party/club/bar is drunk.
 

diablo

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There's a difference between "drunk" and "too drunk". If she's drunk, then it's fine. If she's "too drunk" - meaning she's barely able to walk, form a sentence, or open her mouth without drooling on herself... then you might find yourself being visited by the police the day after.

In summation:

Drunk = okay
Too Drunk = not okay
 

italostud

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Originally posted by diablo
There's a difference between "drunk" and "too drunk". If she's drunk, then it's fine. If she's "too drunk" - meaning she's barely able to walk, form a sentence, or open her mouth without drooling on herself... then you might find yourself being visited by the police the day after.

In summation:

Drunk = okay
Too Drunk = not okay
Exactly! :up: Learn to recognize the difference. Shouldn't be too hard.
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by DrBeard
fock it man! Just cos shes drunk it dont mean she is gonna hurt u or go mad on u! U guys need to grab yo balls and just do it! Drunk chicks are the easierst!!
I guess we'll see your picture in the morning paper sometime soon, eh? :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cheat_LBJ

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Originally posted by DrBeard
fock it man! Just cos shes drunk it dont mean she is gonna hurt u or go mad on u! U guys need to grab yo balls and just do it! Drunk chicks are the easierst!!
Yeah...

You try that one in court and see how it goes.
 
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