"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Not making a move when the girl is too drunk

basbhat

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What do you guys think?

I've had oppurtunities to "make a move" on women I know are interested, but if they have been too drunk, I've passed.

I've always felt it may be disrespectful to her and myself as well.

Would a women view this as being a sign of disinterest, or a sign of class?Or neither? Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJuanMonk

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When women are drunk, they should be making all the moves. The guy who isn't as drunk should do nothing and probably even tell her to calm down/rest. To do something the girl remembers that and she might even resent that you took advantage too.
 

rockstar88

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i have this happen alot. i dont drink so i am always sober at work in the club or at parties. there are girls that i know would want to **** me sober or trashed. it just so happens that they make it very very blatent when they are drunk. i have never acted on it. they always thank you for it in the morning. it seems like the nice guy thing to do. but if you do do it it makes your more of a rapist. and i'd rather be a nice guy than a rapist. plus whats the fun of ****ing a trashed girl anyway. wheres the challenge in that.
so if she's drunk just dont do it
 

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I avoid all drunk girls, unless she's in an LTR with me. See, even if you win the court case, you'll still be known as "Mr Rapist" (or pedofile, depending on her age)
 

Double

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so you guys are saying dont pick up chicks on partys/bars/clubs ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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diplomatic_lies

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Not every chick at a party/club/bar is drunk.
 

diablo

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There's a difference between "drunk" and "too drunk". If she's drunk, then it's fine. If she's "too drunk" - meaning she's barely able to walk, form a sentence, or open her mouth without drooling on herself... then you might find yourself being visited by the police the day after.

In summation:

Drunk = okay
Too Drunk = not okay
 

italostud

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Originally posted by diablo
There's a difference between "drunk" and "too drunk". If she's drunk, then it's fine. If she's "too drunk" - meaning she's barely able to walk, form a sentence, or open her mouth without drooling on herself... then you might find yourself being visited by the police the day after.

In summation:

Drunk = okay
Too Drunk = not okay
Exactly! :up: Learn to recognize the difference. Shouldn't be too hard.
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by DrBeard
fock it man! Just cos shes drunk it dont mean she is gonna hurt u or go mad on u! U guys need to grab yo balls and just do it! Drunk chicks are the easierst!!
I guess we'll see your picture in the morning paper sometime soon, eh? :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheat_LBJ

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Originally posted by DrBeard
fock it man! Just cos shes drunk it dont mean she is gonna hurt u or go mad on u! U guys need to grab yo balls and just do it! Drunk chicks are the easierst!!
Yeah...

You try that one in court and see how it goes.
 
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