"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not making a move when the girl is too drunk

basbhat

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What do you guys think?

I've had oppurtunities to "make a move" on women I know are interested, but if they have been too drunk, I've passed.

I've always felt it may be disrespectful to her and myself as well.

Would a women view this as being a sign of disinterest, or a sign of class?Or neither? Thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJuanMonk

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When women are drunk, they should be making all the moves. The guy who isn't as drunk should do nothing and probably even tell her to calm down/rest. To do something the girl remembers that and she might even resent that you took advantage too.
 

rockstar88

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i have this happen alot. i dont drink so i am always sober at work in the club or at parties. there are girls that i know would want to **** me sober or trashed. it just so happens that they make it very very blatent when they are drunk. i have never acted on it. they always thank you for it in the morning. it seems like the nice guy thing to do. but if you do do it it makes your more of a rapist. and i'd rather be a nice guy than a rapist. plus whats the fun of ****ing a trashed girl anyway. wheres the challenge in that.
so if she's drunk just dont do it
 

diplomatic_lies

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I avoid all drunk girls, unless she's in an LTR with me. See, even if you win the court case, you'll still be known as "Mr Rapist" (or pedofile, depending on her age)
 

Double

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so you guys are saying dont pick up chicks on partys/bars/clubs ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diplomatic_lies

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Not every chick at a party/club/bar is drunk.
 

diablo

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There's a difference between "drunk" and "too drunk". If she's drunk, then it's fine. If she's "too drunk" - meaning she's barely able to walk, form a sentence, or open her mouth without drooling on herself... then you might find yourself being visited by the police the day after.

In summation:

Drunk = okay
Too Drunk = not okay
 

italostud

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Originally posted by diablo
There's a difference between "drunk" and "too drunk". If she's drunk, then it's fine. If she's "too drunk" - meaning she's barely able to walk, form a sentence, or open her mouth without drooling on herself... then you might find yourself being visited by the police the day after.

In summation:

Drunk = okay
Too Drunk = not okay
Exactly! :up: Learn to recognize the difference. Shouldn't be too hard.
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by DrBeard
fock it man! Just cos shes drunk it dont mean she is gonna hurt u or go mad on u! U guys need to grab yo balls and just do it! Drunk chicks are the easierst!!
I guess we'll see your picture in the morning paper sometime soon, eh? :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cheat_LBJ

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Originally posted by DrBeard
fock it man! Just cos shes drunk it dont mean she is gonna hurt u or go mad on u! U guys need to grab yo balls and just do it! Drunk chicks are the easierst!!
Yeah...

You try that one in court and see how it goes.
 
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